He’s a Sadist

He’s an acting teacher who can’t distinguish between fantasy and reality and wants everyone to share his distorted view of the world. He doesn’t think he’s abusing people so he denies it. It’s just the way he is. (He’s a sadist.) His sadistic personality disorder causes problems for so many people, yet people are still fooled by him. His dark personality punishes people if they go against him or if his ego is threatened in the slightest way. Underneath it all, his manner is vicious and unforgiving. He derives pleasure from hurting and emotionally abusing innocent people. He is a sadist. And of course, there is a link between narcissistic personality disorder and sadism. Read about it here: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/insight-is-2020/201607/the-disturbing-link-between-narcissism-and-sadism

People continue to help this psychopath—the one bragging he practices Machiavellian philosophies (a classic trait of narcissistic personality disorder)—so now you have to wonder what is wrong with them. Or maybe they don’t realize they are being lied to? Only someone with a real brain can see through him and his lies. “Grow up, Dude! Get yourself some treatment for your illness! People are tired of dealing with you.” It’s been the same nasty business for years now. And the same goes for the people who help him. “What is wrong with you? I’m never going to work with him. You need to stop.” But you can’t make people smart. And you can’t make people listen. Thus, people would rather listen to a madman than to a genius. That is quite a statement on our society. Read about narcissistic personality disorder here: https://www.helpguide.org/articles/mental-disorders/narcissistic-personality-disorder.htm

I’m moving to Florida to move away from all this but he has already reached out to people there too. My tenants finally moved out only because there had been a broken pipe that caused water to back up into the unit, and the unit had to be vacated to properly assess the water damage. The tenants were supposed to leave last September 30, 2021. I had agreed to let them stay past September 30 because they said they needed more time to look for a place to live. So, we switched over to a month-to-month lease on an as-is basis because I planned on renovating when they left. It was never meant to be a one-year lease, or we would have stayed on a one-year lease. Eight months later and they never even looked for a place. Were they in collusion with the property manager? It seemed so. But even after being given an extension, they didn’t uphold their end of the lease and went out of their way to cause drama. That sounds like collusion with the sadistic narcissist. He prides himself with infecting all areas of my life (even though he’s been told not to) and then denying it. Preying on innocent people and pranking them? Causing unnecessary problems? Something you could document and call an attorney regarding, I’m sure. Don’t say “ethical” in Florida. Some people don’t know the meaning of the word.

Pranking people? Calling my jobs and punishing me there, too, even though he’s been told over and over again not to call my jobs. This alone will be the reason I will never work with him again. I’ve paid attention to how he treats me and my jobs and the lack of respect he has for both. And for my circle of friends. His mental illness knows no boundaries. At almost 70 years old, he is pathetic. This has nothing to do with acting or making anyone stronger. This is his illness. And he will punish me for posting this because he doesn’t want people to hear from me. Only him. The sadist enjoys setting me up for weird or negative experiences so one day (when he stops this behavior) he can walk back into my life and suddenly, everything will be fine. Then he can show me how much better my life will be with him in it. (Yes, it’s creepy.) And although I realize this site sounds more like a commercial for the CUNY Graduate Center than originally intended, I will say that the only people smart enough to understand and realize the seriousness of what has been going on here have been my CUNY professors. They are sharp and insightful. They are highly intelligent. And they care about their students. Consider a CUNY school for your undergraduate and postgraduate work.

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